It is great you want to be a christian counselor, and that you want to help
people overcome thier addictions, but to get he "christ"-ian part right you
would have to know and teach what Christ taught, right? Unless you want to
go ahead with some personal revelation from Him thats not written in His book, but God told us not to do that.
Can I then challenge you to examine the words of Christ before you continue to
persist in saying smoking/addiction is a sin? I`m certainly not trying to
dicate to anyones conscience, or meaning to be disrespectful of your views, if
you feel something is not right for you, then by all means stay away from it.
The scripture teaches it is truth that sets us free, and this is surely the rule even
when it comes to addictions, so you cannot begin the work of helping another
be free, by telling them a lie. There is more than you and I on this forum,
and its for this reason, I am calling into question some of your statements, that I see to be in disagreement with the Word of God.
Heres how its been going:
You say smoking is a sin.
Jesus says nothing you put in your body makes you a sinner
You said no no no smoking is a sin.
Jesus says nothing you put in your body makes you a sinner.
Then you say well addiction makes you a sinner (and idolater)
Want to see where I see the twisting? Or maybe I should say adding to Gods Word:
Mat 15:11 Not that which goeth into the mouth defileth a man;
unless he puts
too much of that substance in his mouth and becomes addicted, then he is a
sinner
Did I quote that scripture correctly? No. But its exactly what you are saying.
Do you see my problem with your statement now?
Now Jesus did say the tongue defiles the whole body, but He was pretty adamant
that it was not because of what you chew or inhale. I would admonish any man,
young or old, new convert of old convert, that if majoring in psychology or
any other study(ies), causes him to contradict Christs teachings, he better
switch majors. (no offence intended, I love phychology
Finally you say "I will always follow Jesus."
Jesus asks "why do you call me Lord and dont care what I say?" (Luk 6:46)
You choose not to acknowledge what I`m saying Christ says, and instead turn
the focus of the conversation to a personal point. Thats a good distraction
tactic people use in conversations when they no longer want to stick to
whats being discussed. You say "I recommend being a bit more polite cuz those
little remarks you made about a monk, and even laughing, are a turn off and
they give you a bad impression. I came here expecting to be able to testify
and learn, but from you I'm finding that hard."
I am sorry if you view my responses as impolite. I will gladly explain myself. You said turning to anything besides God,(that referring specfically to smoking) makes anyone
(that apparently includes me) an idolater. I laughed from sheer amusement as
thats the biggest stretch of an arguement I`ve seen used agianst smoking yet.
Lets say I address your statement seriously, then I ask you again why does it
completely contradict that "God gave wine to make the hearts of men glad?" You
couldnt or wouldnt answer that question, why? Does it undermine your whole
arguement?
I asked you if you were a monk in all seriousness, because they are the only
ones I know who live as you suggest, with thier hands folded. As a matter of
fact, you talk about being honest with ourselves, and if you really believe
this is important, (I do to) then at least be honest enough to acknowledge
you are contradictiong what Jesus taught. You are only finding it hard to
learn from me, because I am challenging your views, and you arnt liking it.
This is also preventing you from seeing that I am encouraging you to follow
Christ every bit as much as Stephen is, as it is JESUS words I used as a
basis for what I have said from the beginning.
You state "It all comes down to "is what you're doing glorifying God?" Does
smoking glorify God?"
Lets let Gods word address this question, since as stephen said, (and I fully
agree) we should only listen to God...lets go all the way back to the
beginning:
Gen 1:29 And God said, Behold,
I have given you every herb bearing seed,
which is upon the face of all the earth, and every tree, in the which is the
fruit of a tree yielding seed;
to you it shall be for meat.
1Ti 4:3
They will try to stop people from marrying and
from eating certain
meats, which God created to be received with thanksgiving by those who
believe and
know the truth. For everything God created is good, and nothing should be
rejected if it is received with thanksgiving
You say "I understand addiction and idolatry entirely too well to be told that
my views are twisted."
Jesus says: "Full well ye reject the precepts of God, that ye may keep your
own tradition." Mar 7:9
I understand addiction pretty well myself, and if you were`nt calling it "sin" and "idolatry"
I might have had no problem agreeing with you.
I can offer one you one small consolation here, most christians I know cover
thier eyes and ears when I say its not a sin to smoke, or drink (centuries of church
teaching precepts of men, trumps the Word of God) so you certianly are not
alone here. I have been there, done that, maybe still do in some areas, God knows, so I would`nt be one to poke fun at views I was once taught and held, without poking fun at myself first anyways. Everything I`ve stated so far is simply the Truth as I see it, no offence intended towards anyone (Maybe I should have introduced myself before I started talking - Hi, I am a religious outcast, pleased to meet you