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Bety

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I joined talkjesus.com recently. I am full of resentment and bitterness because of the hurt I was experienced. I am hit regularly by one person, man who let me know I have no value because I am already old and ugly and married with small children and I never gave a sex to him. He just used me for years -to grow up his business. I work for him. He seems to be filled with evil-enjoying sugarbabies, prostitutes as he is rich and his strategy is to find young poor girl and give to her a work in his company with travels around the world for sex. Every couple years he is changing girls for younger model. I must watch how new girls are enjoing fruits and money of my hard work in his company. As he said he can do what he likes in his life! Unfortunately I cannot find a new job. I feel frustrated and crushed during the last 4 years. Even my colleagues are against me because of what he is saying about me - I cannot visit his head office or meet him! He does not like to be seen next to me as I am so awful, ugly etc... He has no mercy with me. Once I say -write something he is lauging and saying go away from my company-but you have nowhere to go! No one will give you a job! Unfortunatley he is right. With small children I am refused everywhere. I cry very often.
Please pray for me, pray that he might see clearly himself as he really is and realize his need to repent and find forgiveness of sins. And have his heart changed by coming to faith in Jesus -he is proud protestant who bought the organ for one church, who donate to different charity etc. Thank you.
 
Bety,

That is a bit of pain/turmoil to go through on a daily basis. May God lead you to make the right choices in this regard. I can't imagine staying in this situation. As a believer, you know there is a better place for you in this world.

Dear Lord Jesus, instruct Bety in all thy ways concerning the decisions that she must make going forward about the path that she must choose. In surely is not your will for her to live in torment like she has outlined in her post. You tell us Lord that if we delight in you, that you will give you the desires of our heart. (Psalm 37:4 ) May she realize how very special she is to you, Lord. Send her the comfort of the Holy Spirit, dear Lord.

Bety, I speak calmness to your spirit...be at peace...be content. Keep you eyes on God and He will see you through this. Evil men's ways will not prosper forever...

Psalm 21:11 Though they plot evil against you and devise wicked schemes, they cannot succeed.

God Bless You...
 
You need courage to range away from your location if there is no other work there. Also be willing to take lesser positions, even though it might hurt some financially. Glad to pray for your calmness so that you can hear the voice of the Holy Spirit to lead you in the direction best for you.
 
I joined talkjesus.com recently. I am full of resentment and bitterness because of the hurt I was experienced. I am hit regularly by one person, man who let me know I have no value because I am already old and ugly and married with small children and I never gave a sex to him. He just used me for years -to grow up his business. I work for him. He seems to be filled with evil-enjoying sugarbabies, prostitutes as he is rich and his strategy is to find young poor girl and give to her a work in his company with travels around the world for sex. Every couple years he is changing girls for younger model. I must watch how new girls are enjoing fruits and money of my hard work in his company. As he said he can do what he likes in his life! Unfortunately I cannot find a new job. I feel frustrated and crushed during the last 4 years. Even my colleagues are against me because of what he is saying about me - I cannot visit his head office or meet him! He does not like to be seen next to me as I am so awful, ugly etc... He has no mercy with me. Once I say -write something he is lauging and saying go away from my company-but you have nowhere to go! No one will give you a job! Unfortunatley he is right. With small children I am refused everywhere. I cry very often.
Please pray for me, pray that he might see clearly himself as he really is and realize his need to repent and find forgiveness of sins. And have his heart changed by coming to faith in Jesus -he is proud protestant who bought the organ for one church, who donate to different charity etc. Thank you.

I'm not sure if I'm understanding your situation clearly? You're refused other job opportunities because you have smaller children? It sounds like you need you remove yourself from this unhealthy situation. If I were you, I would be posting my resume on EVERY job site I could from and pray that God lead me in the direction that I need to go. I am sorry that you're hurting and I pray that other opportunities come your way.
 
Dear JesusGivesLifeMeaning, I can see the Holy Spirit is with you. I am sorry to ask you once again could you be so kind to pray that this person might see very soon clearly himself as he really is and realize his need to repent and find forgiveness of sins. And have his heart changed by coming to faith in Jesus please? I do not have any hate against him, I am suffering quietly. I would like to save his soul even I am suffering a lot - only God can see how much I really suffer. Thank you very much for your strong pray for this person and your help.
 
Dear JesusGivesLifeMeaning, I can see the Holy Spirit is with you. I am sorry to ask you once again could you be so kind to pray that this person might see very soon clearly himself as he really is and realize his need to repent and find forgiveness of sins. And have his heart changed by coming to faith in Jesus please? I do not have any hate against him, I am suffering quietly. I would like to save his soul even I am suffering a lot - only God can see how much I really suffer. Thank you very much for your strong pray for this person and your help.

Sent you a pm. Rest assured, everyone who requests prayer, even if I may not post in the thread, is entered on my prayer list and I pray daily on their behalf. I'm just doing the will of God, as he has commanded every believer to do, helping others. God Bless You.
 
Sent you a pm. Rest assured, everyone who requests prayer, even if I may not post in the thread, is entered on my prayer list and I pray daily on their behalf. I'm just doing the will of God, as he has commanded every believer to do, helping others. God Bless You.

Thank you very much. I appreciate it. I will definitely let you know if my situation will be changed to the better way. In the meantime it means I continue to suffer quietly... God Bless You too.
 
@Bety I am praying that God will intercede in your situation to smooth your pathway in a way you are able to bear.
 
Trust Him. Read the Word daily and just watch how things change! When things happen that just means He wants to do something in your life. Prayers with you!
 
Thanks to all of you for your pray and support. I would like to give you an update. Unfortunatelly I cannot see any light in my darkness. Attacks are comming very often - various fields in my life. Once again thank you for your pray.
 
Dearest all,

Thank you for your pray however and unfortunately nothing changed, nothing is going to be better, everything looks worse every day. I have to start a court case but I have no money to pay to lawyers...I feel crushed and in depression. Anyway thank you for your efforts.

Bety
 
@Bety
Don't give up! You keep pressing forward and allow your trust to be in God that He will do what He says. Hear our prayers, and do what is best for you. Continue to send your prayers heavenward. Persistence Bety! Even in the weakest moments you keep bringing it before Him! I will add my prayers to the others in the name of Jesus Christ!
With the Love of Christ Jesus.
YBIC
Nick
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@Bety
Don't give up! You keep pressing forward and allow your trust to be in God that He will do what He says. Hear our prayers, and do what is best for you. Continue to send your prayers heavenward. Persistence Bety! Even in the weakest moments you keep bringing it before Him! I will add my prayers to the others in the name of Jesus Christ!
With the Love of Christ Jesus.
YBIC
Nick
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Thank you Nick....
 
Thank you Nick....

Dearest all,


Just an update. Unfortunately nothing changed; nothing is going to be better. My husband is under pressure too. He has been forced by his business partner to order more and more goods but at the end he did not receive any money. Just termination letter! We are in bigger debts. Additionally I have a problem with my parents in law. They tried to turn my children against me. So my children learn how to lie - from them! It is painful. I sent my parents in law away from my home and my husband does not like to accept it. My brother is starting court case against me. My employer - owner of company is full of energy and clever ideas how to make from my life one big hell - everyday, without stop...It is already almost 4 years since he started to do it against me. I have no chance or energy to defend myself. I pray every day but NO SUCCESS at all. Thank you for your pray too.


Bety
 
@Bety
Don't give up hope. I will continue to pray for you, but one thing you have to stop doing is saying the following:
Just an update. Unfortunately nothing changed; nothing is going to be better.
What you are doing by saying this is that "God can't help you." "He doesn't have the power to change what is going on in your life." "The circumstances are beyond His Control"

It's not defeat that you've given into, but Satan. That he will be victorious and not God in your life. DON'T ALLOW THIS! Your words, your belief, your FAITH must all be in trusting the Lord God your Savior!

If you are born again through Jesus Christ.
For whatever is born of God overcomes the world; and this is the victory that has overcome the world--our faith. 1 John 5:4

He is with you:
Isaiah 41:10 'Do not fear, for I am with you; Do not anxiously look about you, for I am your God. I will strengthen you, surely I will help you, Surely I will uphold you with My righteous right hand.'

He is in control:
Jeremiah 29:11 'Do not fear, for I am with you; Do not anxiously look about you, for I am your God. I will strengthen you, surely I will help you, Surely I will uphold you with My righteous right hand.'

Isaiah 45:6-7 That men may know from the rising to the setting of the sun That there is no one besides Me. I am the LORD, and there is no other, 7 The One forming light and creating darkness, Causing well-being and creating calamity; I am the LORD who does all these.

He is doing it for your benefit though you might not see it:
Romans 8:28 And we know that God causes all things to work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to His purpose.

Remember that all this will come to fruition that He might be praised! Who will do the praising and/or be amazed? You, us here who are praying for you, those who have been witnesses to what has happened to you and have done nothing, the perpetrators of these acts to harm a Child of the Most High. All will be witnesses to God's Supernatural Power and His Great Love for His children.

also we have obtained an inheritance, having been predestined according to His purpose who works all things after the counsel of His will, 12 to the end that we who were the first to hope in Christ would be to the praise of His glory.
Ephesians 1:11-12

Yet with all this it still must be up to you to be faithful. No matter what happens, or is happening. Lay it all before Him, continue to do so, and walk as if it's already been done by His Glorious Name Jesus. Amen! Amen! Amen! Stand in victory not defeat! You are weak He is Strong! He is in you! Remember that!

Hold onto His promises and know that they are true. The Devil is a liar! You are victorious in Jesus! He will never leave you nor forsake you!

Find Bible verses to remind you of this and repeat them! Read Ephesians 6 and put on the Armour of God!

Too often we walk around in defeat, allowing the world to claim victory. Don't do this. Hard times you may have gone through and some more may yet await. Yet, you are victorious in Him! You are a representative of God, King of Kings! Let your belief, faith be in Him!

"These things I have spoken to you, so that in Me you may have peace. In the world you have tribulation, but take courage; I have overcome the world." John 16:33

With the Love of Christ Jesus.
YBIC
Nick
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@Bety
Remember when Jesus was facing torture and death and He knew it but in his flesh not wanting to suffer it he prayed to the Father..?

"And he went a little further, and fell on his face, and prayed, saying, O my Father, if it be possible, let this cup pass from me: nevertheless not as I will, but as thou wilt. " Matt 26:39

Three times Jesus prayed that same prayer, but always adding the "not as I will, but as thou wilt". The response of the Father to the Son was that the anticipated torture and death was going to happen and we know that it did.

The answer we receive is not always the answer we would like and that can be very painful. But, if God will not remove the bitter cup which is already before you, then ask that He give you the strength you need to be able to go through it and to arrive on the other side with something better in HIM.

Job at the end of his trial was given a double portion of his lost goods and 10 more children... but the 10 children that died remained dead. Who would forget the loss of 10 beloved children?

I will continue to pray for you.
 
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