@KittyLinda -- Now I understand more -- well -- from a churches' perspective -- I can understand the why's and where'fores OF.
Being a bi-sexual woman -- that means you have no problem with relationships with Either sex and That is Not Scriptural.
As you know FaceBook is open to anyone. So -- it's really your own indiscretions that got you into trouble with the church people.
Marriage is a very serious step in a person's life.
It's Not bigotry or hatred -- as You see it -- it IS the churches belief in Biblical ethics / morality.
You Also realize that nothing in your life is private from God. And everyone will be answering to God for their actions / words.
And I don't understand how a person who says they love the Lord their God with all the heart, mind, soul can Also act / live in a lifestyle that is putrid in God's eyes.
And Since you feel that That was an invasion of your privacy and could have taken legal actions but you left in peace. Well -- that speaks volumes about your attitude towards God. You Want to live your own preferred life style with the blessings of the church -- well -- any church that upholds God's Word isn't going to have that happening.