Treated as scapegoat or black sheep?

[Lanolin]

Are you allowed to marry your cousin? I think thats what the rich did in those days to keep the family fortune. Ew..i couldnt imagine marrying any of my cousins. Lol.

Wouldnt your children if you had any end up with genetic Abnormaliites? I suppose they would look eerily the same, i dont know.

 

[Lanolin]

God showed me Saul tried to kill his own son jonathan cos he was jealous of david. David had to run away. But Jonathon had nowhere to go.

I had a boy in my bible class share that in his family one of his aunties was jealous and got angry. It seems to me some adults get so jealous of their offspring that they do try and kill them. Otherwise I dont know why we have a high rate of child abuse in my country.

The demon is jealousy.

 

[Lanolin]

Am watching downton abbey.
I know its fiction but the story is quite intriguing because its about a family with three daughters who are not 'settled' i.e married. They are very rich but only males can inherit.

The mother wants her eldest daughter to marry the heir to the estate. However she treats the second daughter badly because shes not as attractive looking as the eldest or younger. Basically she ignores her and thinks she wont marry or have any chances and end up being the nurse caregiver when they are elderly. And then the youngest gets away with everything...!

I think being the second daughter is pretty tough. If you are female and your mother doesnt care for you or thinks you are worth anything but to be an old maid..well this is the cry of old maids everywhere.

Sons have a different situation but im asking people to not neglect their daughters. Your daughters need to be loved and cherished..whether they marry or not.

 

[Shutterbug]

Pride is a wonderful thing.

 

[roguesoul]

How do you handle it when people blame you for everything that goes wrong or falsely accuse you in your family.

Perhaps you have parents who aren't believers and they just see you as a nuisance. What do you do, when everything you do right isn't noticed and everything you do wrong is. And no matter what you do, you are always seen as the scapegoat to blame or like the 'black sheep' of the family, to be criticised and picked on.

I know what I did, I left my family. I will never see any of them again.

As I say, a real family are those who want to know each other.

 

[Lanolin]

? I thought God hated pride. He resists the proud and gives grace to the humble.

 

[Lanolin]

My friend said her mum and her sisters used to fight All the time so they just left home.
She and her mums relarionship only got better after she had children she reckons. But she only had boys, not girls...I notice no mothers on here are saying anything about their daughters.....

 

[Lanolin]

Dont watch downton abbey...its trash. Sorry. A church member recommended it to me..but it turns out its just another fancy soap opera.