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Why do nice girls get all the bad!

Greetings Enxu

It is good you are not in a relationship, based on what you say and how you feel, follow your heart sister. Trust in the Lord.

I join you in prayer for the guys salvation, that God will bring him to repentance.

Your last statement is a little more worrying, though I feel the hurt in your heart.

Matthew 18:21-22 (NKJV)
21 Then Peter came to Him and said, "Lord, how often shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? Up to seven times?"
22 Jesus said to him, "I do not say to you, up to seven times, but up to seventy times seven.

We are to forgive as many times as forgiveness is needed, we are to love one another as Christ loves us, we are to offer the other cheek.

Follow our Lord's teaching sister, be open to the Holy Spirit, Trust the Lord with all your heart, forgive, and follow your heart.

Bless you

Thank you for praying for him. I do want to see him get out of that situation whether or not he is with me. There are too many Jezebel spirited women out there ruining relationships for both men and women.

About the forgiving part, I beg to differ. There is nothing to forgive UNLESS I do enter into a relationship with him. He doesn’t need my forgiveness if he’s never going to be with me anyway. And given my past I really don’t want to add more items to the list of “people and things to forgive”. I hope God will spare me from this, I really do.
 
Hello exnu
i know by your are upset and angry.
you clearly have deep feelings for this man or you wouldnt be talking like you do .
pray and pray and then trust and rest your heart and mind.
Walk and talk in Love and await Gods perfect will in your situation
Gods will is supreme always.
i understand i really do.......
its heart wrenching but I pray Gods peace and Love fill and surround you at this difficult time.
In our Lovely Jesus name i pray with you Amen
All Glory be to Our God ..

Thank you.
 
Thank you for praying for him. I do want to see him get out of that situation whether or not he is with me. There are too many Jezebel spirited women out there ruining relationships for both men and women.

About the forgiving part, I beg to differ. There is nothing to forgive UNLESS I do enter into a relationship with him. He doesn’t need my forgiveness if he’s never going to be with me anyway. And given my past I really don’t want to add more items to the list of “people and things to forgive”. I hope God will spare me from this, I really do.


Follow your heart sister.

Jesus loves you we do too.
 
there is no conce
Greetings brother, allow me to add the following that I just looked up...

Biblical Imagery in the Book of Jeremiah

The first edition of Jeremiah’s prophecies was reduced to ashes by king Jehoiakim (Jer 36:1-6). Perhaps this explains why the organization of the book of Jeremiah is difficult to understand. The divergences between the Septuagint (the Greek OT) and the traditional Hebrew text in length and arrangement of the book suggest that there was some fluidity in these areas.

The structure of the book is loosely historical, although some of the material is arranged thematically, perhaps by Jeremiah’s scribe, Baruch (Jer 36:27-32; 45:1-5). The book is perhaps best described as an historical anthology. In addition to prophecy and historical narrative, the finished work includes a legal brief (Jer 2:1-3:5), a sermon (Jeremiah’s famous “Temple Sermon,” Jer 7:1-15; 26:1-6), a letter from home (Jer 29:1-23) and a series of soliloquies (Jeremiah’s heart-rending “Confessions,” Jer 15:10-18; 17:9-18; 18:18-23; 20:7-18).

The broad emphases of Jeremiah’s prophecy are easily discernible. They appear already in the prophet’s call, which uses figurative language to describe his commission to proclaim both judgment and salvation to Judah and the nations. Jeremiah’s call came as early as 627 b.c., although his ministry was centered around the desperate situation that existed just before, during and immediately following the collapse of Judah and Jerusalem in 587/6 b.c.

Jeremiah’s call employs words that picture the nations as edifices or plants that were to be established or destroyed: “See, today I appoint you over nations and kingdoms to uproot and tear down, to destroy and overthrow, to build and to plant” (Jer 1:10 NIV; see Build, Building; Tear Down). This predominantly negative imagery recurs like a refrain throughout the book, describing the judgment of Judah and other nations as well as Judah’s ultimate restoration (e.g., Jer 12:14-17; 18:7-10; 24:6; 31:28; 42:10; 45:4).

Two visions immediately follow the call narrative. The first involves a wordplay on an observed almond branch (sqd), signifying God’s watching (sqd) over his word to bring it to pass (Jer 1:11-12). In the second vision, Jeremiah was shown “a boiling pot, tilting away from the north,” representing the coming divine judgment against Judah for her sin (Jer 1:13-14 NIV).

In the book of Jeremiah, God’s central charge against the people of Judah was that they had broken their covenant with him and had turned instead to other gods (Jer 11:1-10; 22:8-9). Judah had been established in a special relationship with God, like a bride (Jer 2:2). She is described as the firstfruits of God’s harvest (Jer 2:3), his vineyard (Jer 12:10), his flock (Jer 13:17) and his firstborn son (Jer 31:9, 20). However, she had forsaken the spring of living water and had dug out her own cisterns that could not hold water (Jer 2:13).

Jeremiah presented the family of the Rechabites (Jer 35:1-19) and their faithful adherence to the prohibitions imposed by their forefather as a visual example of the obedience that God desired but had not found in Judah. Instead, Judah had given her allegiance to idols, and these are the subject of many of Jeremiah’s oracles. He charged that idolatry had proliferated until it was widespread (Jer 11:13) and acceptable even within and around the holy temple (Jer 7:30-31; 19:5-6; 32:33-35). He accused entire families of idolatrous practices (Jer 7:17-19) as well as every level of officialdom (Jer 2:26-28). These idols are compared to a “scarecrow in the melon patch” (Jer 10:5 NIV). They are worthless and fraudulent-no comparison to the Lord Almighty who created all things (Jer 10:1-16). Jeremiah likened Judah’s unfaithfulness to God to that of an adulterous woman (Jer 3:20; 5:7) or a prostitute (Jer 2:20; 3:1-3; 4:30; 13:26-27), whose appetite for foreign gods is compared to the desire of a she-camel or wild donkey in heat who sniffs the wind in her lust (Jer 2:23-24).

In addition to idolatry, the nation’s abandonment of God’s law manifested itself in social decay and immorality (Jer 5:1-9; 7:5-8), including unspeakable acts of violence in the valley of slaughter (Jer 7:30-32). Jeremiah accused the false prophets of abetting this spiritual decline (Jer 14:14-16; 23:9-40). The prophets prophesied “peace, peace, when there was no peace” (Jer 6:14; 8:11). Jeremiah urged the people of Judah to turn away from their faithlessness by describing in fearsome imagery the judgment God must otherwise bring on the nation. That judgment would be like a scorching, scattering desert wind (Jer 4:11; 13:24), like eating bitter food and drinking poisoned water (Jer 8:14; 9:15; 23:15), like the violence and shame of rape (Jer 13:22) or the pain of childbirth (Jer 4:31; 13:21; see Birth), like a furious storm (Jer 23:19) or the very disintegration of all order into the precreation chaos (Jer 4:23-26).

But Jeremiah did not limit his exhortation to repentance to words. His first trip to the potter graphically illustrated that just as the potter can alter his intentions for the vessel he is forming on the wheel, so God can revise his plans for a nation on the basis of their actions (Jer 18:1-2). If Judah would repent, judgment could still be averted.

But because the people of Judah had eyes but could not see and ears but could not hear (Jer 5:21), they rejected Jeremiah’s visual and vocal message. The nation did not repent of its wickedness. Unlike the storks, doves, swifts or thrushes, who know their appointed migratory times and routes (see Birds), Judah is described as being as directionless as a horse in battle (Jer 8:4-7). The prophecy of Jeremiah therefore turns to a pronouncement of impending judgment. Thus, Jeremiah’s second trip to the potter was for a visual depiction of God’s verdict against the nation. Judah would be smashed just as the potter’s jar was smashed (Jer 19:1-13). Judah had been planted in the land like a choice vine of sound and reliable stock but had become a corrupt, wild vine that had to be uprooted (Jer 2:21).

Jeremiah also symbolized and represented the coming judgment of which he spoke in his own person and actions. He buried a linen belt until it became rotten and useless to demonstrate that Judah had become rotten (see Decay) and was no longer able to be used by God to bring himself honor (Jer 13:1-11). Jeremiah remained unmarried and childless and was prohibited from entering a house where there was mourning or rejoicing in order to demonstrate that the offspring of Judah would perish and that there would soon be neither mourning for the dead nor rejoicing with newlyweds in the land (Jer 16:1-9). The inevitability of the nation’s judgment was further signified by God’s denying to Jeremiah his intercessory role as a prophet (Jer 7:16; 11:14; 14:11-12). Jeremiah’s arrest, beatings (Jer 20:1-2) and imprisonment in the king’s dungeon (see Prison) and his later near-death in the cistern (Jer 37-38) point toward the coming captivity and near extinction of the nation of Judah at the hands of the Babylonians (Jer 39). Toward the end of his ministry, when the exile had already begun, Jeremiah encouraged the people of Judah to submit to Nebuchadnezzar by placing on his own neck a yoke of straps and crossbars (Jer 27). Even the emotions of Jeremiah, which have earned him the moniker “the weeping prophet,” not only manifest his melancholy but also demonstrate God’s own sorrow over having to so severely judge his chosen people (e.g., Jer 4:19; 13:15-17).

The positive side of Jeremiah’s message, corresponding to the “building” and “planting” of his prophetic call, involves the motif of a remnant (e.g., Jer 3:14; 23:3; 30:10-11; 50:20) that would be delivered from captivity and returned to the land of promise (Jer 3:18; 16:14-15; 29:10-14; 30:17-31:40; 50:19). After seventy years of captivity (Jer 25:12), a righteous Branch would come to rule on David’s throne (Jer 23:3, 5-6; 33:14-26). The proclamation of this future restoration centers in the portion of the book of Jeremiah known as the Book of Consolation (Jer 30:1-33:26). Jeremiah communicated this positive message of restoration visually by buying a field in the besieged land of Judah in order to demonstrate that “houses, fields and vineyards will again be bought in this land” (Jer 32:15 NIV). Indeed, Jeremiah’s own deliverance from prison (Jer 40) pointed toward the future deliverance of the people he represented from their Babylonian captivity.

The images in which Jeremiah’s twin messages of judgment and restoration find their fullest expression are the images of the cup of the wine of God’s wrath and the new covenant. Jeremiah was commanded to take from God’s hand the cup filled with the wine of his wrath and make the nations to whom God sent him drink it (Jer 25:15). This cup represents God’s judgment and was to be taken to “all the kingdoms on the face of the earth” (Jer 25:26 NIV). At the top of the list were Jerusalem and the towns of Judah (Jer 25:18). Judah would be handed over to the army of Nebuchadnezzar, described as a lion coming out of his lair (Jer 4:7), whose unstoppable advance would be “like the roaring sea” (Jer 6:23 NIV), or “like the clouds, his chariots like a whirlwind, and his horses swifter than eagles” (Jer 4:13 NIV). His soldiers are all mighty warriors, whose quivers carry as much certainty of death as an open grave (Jer 5:16). A “tester of metals” would assay Judah, the ore (Jer 6:27). The Gentile nations too would experience God’s judgment, and this forms the substance of Jeremiah’s “oracles against the nations” (Jer 46-51). However, the universal and final character of the prophesied judgment forces one to look for its ultimate fulfillment at a later time.

The situation is similar with the image of the new covenant (Jer 31:31-34). Jeremiah described this new covenant with God as involving an intimate personal relationship, the forgiveness of sins and a disposition toward God that would no longer be characterized by intransigent and rebellious hearts upon which sin is permanently “engraved with an iron tool, inscribed with a flint point” (Jer 17:1 NIV), but rather by receptive hearts on which the law of God is written. This new covenant, like the cup of the wine of God’s wrath, would also be extended to the Gentile nations (Jer 3:17).

The book of Jeremiah ends, however, on a negative note. There was turmoil within the tiny community that remained in the land of Judah, and despite Jeremiah’s protests, they eventually fled to Egypt (Jer 40-44). The realization of this prophesied new covenant, therefore, was also to be experienced in a later day.

The NT authors find the ultimate fulfillment of Jeremiah’s images of the cup of the wine of God’s wrath and the new covenant in the person and work of Jesus Christ (cf. Mt 26:27-28). Jesus drank from the cup of God’s wrath to experience the full judgment of God against the sin of humankind (Mt 26:39; Jn 18:11). In so doing, he opened the way for the redemption of a remnant into an everlasting, new covenant with God, whose laws are written on their hearts (Heb 8:6-13).

See also Babylon; Build, Building; Covenant; Heart; Jerusalem; Judgment; Prophecy, Genre Of; Remnant; Restoration; Tear Down.
Dictionary of Biblical Imagery.

I am aware of Digital Imagery, Similies and the like but to date have not spent a lot of time in them, it is another open book on my electronic desk ;)
LOL,
Biblical Imagery in the Book of Jeremiah. well done. I love it.
 
Hello exnu
i know by your are upset and angry.
you clearly have deep feelings for this man or you wouldnt be talking like you do .
pray and pray and then trust and rest your heart and mind.
Walk and talk in Love and await Gods perfect will in your situation
Gods will is supreme always.
i understand i really do.......
its heart wrenching but I pray Gods peace and Love fill and surround you at this difficult time.
In our Lovely Jesus name i pray with you Amen
All Glory be to Our God ..
Nicola, you know why she feels so attached to this person, because this is a job for experience christian woman, I have been waiting to see who would come up to the plate. This is something you cannot sissy foot around with. You got to hit the nail over the head with "Hammer"!

(Jeremiah 23).
29Is not my word like as a fire? saith the LORD; and like a hammer that breaketh the rock in pieces? 30Therefore, behold, I am against the prophets, saith the LORD, that steal my words every one from his neighbour. 31Behold, I amagainst the prophets, saith the LORD, that use their tongues, and say, He saith. 32Behold, I am against them that prophesy false dreams, saith the LORD, and do tell them, and cause my people to err by their lies, and by their lightness; yet I sent them not, nor commanded them: therefore they shall not profit this people at all, saith the LORD.

And Make sure, it is back up with the
unadulterated "WORD of GOD"! "And Perfect Love cast out Fear"! I do know that You Have eyes to see! Called it as it is! Nothing more or Nothing less. "If you don't somebody will"! "With Persecution". "There are more for you than against you"
 
And i must say this "Good Christian men" do not want or want to chase "EVIL" women. Who in their right mind whats something evil, they want something "GOOD":p
And "Good" Christians men sure do not want a "bossy" "Queen Jezebel'" and don't want a "Queen Vashti" either! They want a "Esther"! Just like King Xerxes", ask some of these experience older women. They can tell you what these men want, the men might not get it. but you got to hold out until the Honeymoon!. And I can back it up by "The Word of God"! That is why The Bible says: The older and Godly experience woman is to teach the younger "How" to Love there own "Husbands", why, because younger women don't know how! Now i am through with that! ( Now tell all of us, you experience women what these women should do and how they should act) We are all, having "itching EARS"! Don't be bashful now.:cool:
 
Was Eve a nice girl?

Adam thought so, but there was no competition.

I am sure Eve thought she was a nice girl too.

We are all different, we all have different views, we all have different ideas, we all have different likes and dislikes.

A nice girl, or a nice guy, may not seem nice to another person.

A tree may appear go be a good tree that will bear good fruit, but if it turns out to be a bad tree and bears bad fruit, walk away, count your blessings.
 
And i must say this "Good Christian men" do not want or want to chase "EVIL" women. Who in their right mind whats something evil, they want something "GOOD":p
And "Good" Christians men sure do not want a "bossy" "Queen Jezebel'" and don't want a "Queen Vashti" either! They want a "Esther"! Just like King Xerxes", ask some of these experience older women. They can tell you what these men want, the men might not get it. but you got to hold out until the Honeymoon!. And I can back it up by "The Word of God"! That is why The Bible says: The older and Godly experience woman is to teach the younger "How" to Love there own "Husbands", why, because younger women don't know how! Now i am through with that! ( Now tell all of us, you experience women what these women should do and how they should act) We are all, having "itching EARS"! Don't be bashful now.:cool:
And i must say this "Good Christian men" do not want or want to chase "EVIL" women. Who in their right mind whats something evil, they want something "GOOD":p
And "Good" Christians men sure do not want a "bossy" "Queen Jezebel'" and don't want a "Queen Vashti" either! They want a "Esther"! Just like King Xerxes", ask some of these experience older women. They can tell you what these men want, the men might not get it. but you got to hold out until the Honeymoon!. And I can back it up by "The Word of God"! That is why The Bible says: The older and Godly experience woman is to teach the younger "How" to Love there own "Husbands", why, because younger women don't know how! Now i am through with that! ( Now tell all of us, you experience women what these women should do and how they should act) We are all, having "itching EARS"! Don't be bashful now.:cool:
Plough boy your a passionate Zealous Godly terror you are indeed!!!!! and a gem !!!!
(said with a smile and love )
Right the girl exnu is not a wife so i wont address her as one
exnu is in error saying no forgiveness and her anger i know but i choose to speak in Love to her as she needs Godly comfort thats why she posted a post .
we have all been angry vented at some point .
Love makes us do and say crazy things.
i wont quote scripture to you ploughboy as you know every (syntax what ever that means ) and all the deep meat with the bone in way over and beyond me.
so.
Me im a married woman, i honor God in my marriage to my husband even when hes unfaithfull cruel and thoughtless
ive prayed and studied provebs 31 for many years and the women of the bible ,pauls words on roles of women
im a busy martha indeed and have a mary heart before my Lord.im very not perfect but i pray to become
a Holy woman of God in Jesus more and more until theres nothing of nic flesh left.
so ive lived 23 years flesh then
23 years spirit
so i know what it is to be a woman of the world way to my shame
but thanks be to God im a new creation in christ Jesus my Lord and Saviour.
Now back to the young girl deffo needs to go before God in repentance never mind the man
she must focus on her own personal relationship with God first
first Love !!
so plough boy if you want to hit the nail hard on her head or mine carry on i can take it
but id rather gently tap and by Gods grace and prayer her heart be changed like mine was when i was a ferel beryl
what are your thoughts scripture you feel should be said to exnu please tell no syntax lol lol couldnt resist that one plough boy no offence intended just freindly sparring as you lime to yeild that battle axe i mean sword x God bless truly
speak the truth but say it nicely xx
 
Plough boy your a passionate Zealous Godly terror you are indeed!!!!! and a gem !!!!
(said with a smile and love )
Right the girl exnu is not a wife so i wont address her as one
exnu is in error saying no forgiveness and her anger i know but i choose to speak in Love to her as she needs Godly comfort thats why she posted a post .
we have all been angry vented at some point .
Love makes us do and say crazy things.
i wont quote scripture to you ploughboy as you know every (syntax what ever that means ) and all the deep meat with the bone in way over and beyond me.
so.
Me im a married woman, i honor God in my marriage to my husband even when hes unfaithfull cruel and thoughtless
ive prayed and studied provebs 31 for many years and the women of the bible ,pauls words on roles of women
im a busy martha indeed and have a mary heart before my Lord.im very not perfect but i pray to become
a Holy woman of God in Jesus more and more until theres nothing of nic flesh left.
so ive lived 23 years flesh then
23 years spirit
so i know what it is to be a woman of the world way to my shame
but thanks be to God im a new creation in christ Jesus my Lord and Saviour.
Now back to the young girl deffo needs to go before God in repentance never mind the man
she must focus on her own personal relationship with God first
first Love !!
so plough boy if you want to hit the nail hard on her head or mine carry on i can take it
but id rather gently tap and by Gods grace and prayer her heart be changed like mine was when i was a ferel beryl
what are your thoughts scripture you feel should be said to exnu please tell no syntax lol lol couldnt resist that one plough boy no offence intended just freindly sparring as you lime to yeild that battle axe i mean sword x God bless truly
speak the truth but say it nicely xx
Now, can no one top that,, proper words, gentle spirit, at the proper time, and carried by a anointed vessel.:relieved::relieved:
 
Now, can no one top that,, proper words, gentle spirit, at the proper time, and carried by a anointed vessel.:relieved::relieved:


Nicola is a blessing to the Talk Jesus ekklesia brother. She rely does love the Lord, we must pray for each other and encourage one another in the Lord, accepting we all love the Lord, but are at different stages in our growth in faith.

Hope she doesn't mind me saying, she is a little gem and needs our prayer.

The spirit is moving in this forum brother to God be the Glory.

This one is for Nicola. TGBTG. \o/
 
Nicola is a blessing to the Talk Jesus ekklesia brother. She rely does love the Lord, we must pray for each other and encourage one another in the Lord, accepting we all love the Lord, but are at different stages in our growth in faith.

Hope she doesn't mind me saying, she is a little gem and needs our prayer.

The spirit is moving in this forum brother to God be the Glory.

This one is for Nicola. TGBTG. \o/

\●/ xxx
 
Nicola is a blessing to the Talk Jesus ekklesia brother. She rely does love the Lord, we must pray for each other and encourage one another in the Lord, accepting we all love the Lord, but are at different stages in our growth in faith.

Hope she doesn't mind me saying, she is a little gem and needs our prayer.

The spirit is moving in this forum brother to God be the Glory.

This one is for Nicola. TGBTG. \o/

very kind brother Brother paul \●/ thankyou for learning me this blessed little symbol that means so very much x
 
I do have a spine, don’t worry. I have yet to burn myself out with any playboys because I know one when I see one. They don’t fool me.

Im just wondering if there is a better man out there anymore rofl.

Again, the onus is on you to pick a better man. There's no women on the early side of twenty at my church until there was. I approached her with her mom. She was smitten and so was her mom. Maybe more so.

Stop resisting what is. That's insanity. The present moment is single. So be it. If anything, i love bachelor life. Its a great time and I am available when the right person is available. I will let things play with the girl and others until I am no longer a bachelor. I suggest you do the same.

Being butt hurt and ranting in every thread is off-putting. I met a girl recently. She is a activist, victimhood, and into race baiting. I suspect feminist. I lost her number. I have no time for it.

We have a finite life. Use it wisely.
 
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