@bestrfcplayer,
First let me preface this with I love you :thumbs_up
Hope you're not feeling ganged up on :thumbs_do
Normally, I like to take a gander at the individuals bio, to try to get a little inkling of where they might be coming from. RC makes it very difficult at times to deal with certain subjects, but not so much in this case. Not that I'm going to reference their stance on the subject. Let me enjoinder a different way than has not from what I can tell been used so far.
I normally see the subject of God choosing what is acceptable for His Children in the way a parent who loves their children does (Yes I am a parent of two.). First the parent should (I say should, since I have seen some parents who leave me questioning if it's not the other way around in what I'm about to say. have a knowledge/experience base that far out distances the child they are rearing. This allows that the parent is aware of what will damage or hurt a child in advance of any action done by the child. Now the parent has the ability to communicate the entire reasoning behind the decision, but the child might not have the ability to comprehend the "why" of the warning being given (Still learning/Small knowledge base). That is why the warning needs to be sufficient unto its self at times (Adam & Eve with the tree example might work here). We as earthly parents have finite years to deal with our children's questions along with corrections and still fail miserably at the task. Thankfully God has an eternity to deal with His Children. To help the process along He has also provided a guide for understanding (Holy Spirit through revelation.), His Word through the inspired writers of the bible the vehicle by which we are given the "warning" to those He has called to be His.
bestrfcplayer, we are those children who call Jesus Christ, Lord, and Savior. As with children, they all learn at different speeds. Some quickly so as not to get burned, while others not so much so. Those normally require some time to heal from the lesson learned. Sadly, we do have a tendency to have repeat offenders. More troubling, is that we even have some who play at make "belief" (A little play on the word "believe") Yet everything being said and done I'm sure the one thing we can agree with is, we are rarely the best evaluators of what is right or wrong when it comes to behavior that is beneficial to us, when left to our own devices (Outside of scriptural guidance.). Personally once I was saved my behavior didn't change. I didn't stop drinking, smoking, doing drugs, womanizing. One does not change overnight. Some might, and those are the ones truly blessed. Others, which I am one. It took time. Years to be precise. Not that I'm perfect yet (One day, and not on my own!), but it
doesn't mean I accept the condition reflected by my behavior which my Father Who art in heaven would not approve of. It's like some believe that once we're saved the work or the learning stops!!!
That being said. The problem man has, which one can see from Genesis 3 till now. Like any obstinate child we really do think we know better! Man has for the most part, a desire to be on equal footing with God. To call the shots. Decide what is right or wrong, of cause not if it's pleasurable or doing no harm that "we" can see. So if His Word has an admonishment about something that we enjoy doing, we will attempt to find a way to do it. Even if means twisting, turning, omitting, or just plan ignoring what His Word says. Man will do it. Add to that "Satan" who is no help what so ever. What do you have? People saying he's a "Loving God" (Which He is.), but forgetting to include that He is also,
HOLY (
Because it is written, Be ye holy; for I am holy. 1 Peter 1:16 Who shall not fear thee, O Lord, and glorify thy name? for thou only art holy: for all nations shall come and worship before thee; for thy judgments are made manifest. Revelation 15:4),
GOOD (
Psalm 34:8 O taste and see that the LORD [is] good: blessed [is] the man [that] trusteth in him. Psalm 119:68 Thou [art] good, and doest good; teach me thy statutes. Psalm 52:1..... the goodness of God [endureth] continually. ),
JUST (
Standard:
Romans 3:23 For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; Punishment:
Romans 6:23 For the wages of sin [is] death; but the gift of God [is] eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.). There are so many more attributes that are God that it leaves me speechless because if we continue to read the Bible we'd continue to find them all through His Holy Word!!!!!! I'm glad we'll have eternal life to get to know Him! (John 17:3)
We stop at love and attempt to define it as all inclusive, regardless of what we see in scripture to the contrary. I like to ask if we see it often enough in the light of sacrifice? We all know, or mostly all know John 3:16
For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life. Yet seem to forget that submitting to His will is also showing our love for Him. Remember Jesus in the garden of Gethsemane praying?
Luke 22:42 Saying, Father, if thou be willing, remove this cup from me:nevertheless not my will, but thine, be done. Submission! Tough for us humans! Even in the light of our own salvation!
Now you may not see anything wrong with homosexuality, or stealing if you're hungry and need to feed your family, or any number of other situational stories we can come up with for rationalizing the things that we believe or do that go against His Holy Word in which we personally see a need to justify. Yet in truth. What's important is not what "we" define as being right or wrong, but what does God have to say about it. As His Children, He does love us, but I'm sure does not approve of everything that we do. That's why we get disciplined when we do wrong (Hebrews 12:6
For whom the Lord loveth he chasteneth, and scourgeth every son whom he receiveth.) Let's pray that we don't knowingly or unknowingly lead anyone astray, by only extracting the parts we approve of. So where do we go to find out the rest of the story? Yep, the Holy Bible. Not piece meal, but in total.
Well, I've already written half a book and I hope some of it helps you see it a bit differently.
One final thought
Did you notice I didn't cover the non-believer?
The reason I didn't cover them is that there is more than immoral behavior that should be concerning them. The sad part is that they're not overly concerned.
C4E