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It would be best to address those scripture that actually does condemn masturbation as it is known today but as a work of the flesh known as
uncleanness Biblically.
Galatians 5:19 Now the works of the flesh are manifest, which are these; Adultery,
fornication, uncleanness, lasciviousness, 20 Idolatry, witchcraft, hatred, variance, emulations, wrath, strife, seditions, heresies, 21 Envyings, murders, drunkenness, revellings, and such like: of the which I tell you before, as I have also told you in time past, that they which do such things shall not inherit the kingdom of God.
Uncleanness as located in between the sex sins of
fornication and
lasciviousness which lasciviousness is sexual excessiveness,
masturbation cannot escape just because uncleanness is called by a different name today.
One can see how masturbation can result from worshiping the creature more than the Creator; hence idolatry which pornography can apply towards.
Romans 1:23 And changed the glory of the uncorruptible God into an image made like to corruptible man, and to birds, and fourfooted beasts, and creeping things.
24 Wherefore God also gave them up to uncleanness through the lusts of their own hearts, to dishonour their own bodies between themselves: 25 Who changed the truth of God into a lie, and worshipped and served the creature more than the Creator, who is blessed for ever. Amen.
Romans 6:19 I speak after the manner of men because of
the infirmity of your flesh: for as ye have yielded your members servants to uncleanness and to iniquity unto iniquity; even so now yield your members servants to righteousness unto holiness.
2 Corinthians 12:21 And lest, when I come again, my God will humble me among you, and that I shall bewail many which have sinned already, and
have not repented of the uncleanness and fornication and lasciviousness which they have committed.
I'm not seeing any exceptions given by Paul in this issue at all where uncleanness or masturbation can be okay since uncleanness is not to be even named among us.
Ephesians 5:2 And walk in love, as Christ also hath loved us, and hath given himself for us an offering and a sacrifice to God for a sweetsmelling savour.
3 But fornication, and all uncleanness, or covetousness, let it not be once named among you, as becometh saints; 4 Neither filthiness, nor foolish talking, nor jesting, which are not convenient: but rather giving of thanks.
Colossians 3:4 When Christ, who is our life, shall appear, then shall ye also appear with him in glory.
5 Mortify therefore your members which are upon the earth; fornication, uncleanness, inordinate affection, evil concupiscence, and covetousness, which is idolatry: 6 For which things' sake the wrath of God cometh on the children of disobedience:
God can deliver us from the temptations to commit uncleanness when we recognize that it is a sin and we need His help.
2 Peter 2:9 The Lord knoweth how to deliver the godly out of temptations, and to reserve the unjust unto the day of judgment to be punished: 10 But chiefly them that walk after the flesh in the lust of uncleanness, and despise government. Presumptuous are they, selfwilled, they are not afraid to speak evil of dignities.
Even wetting oneself is a form of uncleanness for why we need His help to cast down wicked imaginations and think on good things.
Jude 1:17 But, beloved, remember ye the words which were spoken before of the apostles of our Lord Jesus Christ; 18 How that they told you there should be mockers in the last time, who should walk after their own ungodly lusts.
19 These be they who separate themselves, sensual, having not the Spirit. 20 But ye, beloved, building up yourselves on your most holy faith, praying in the Holy Ghost,
( verses 19 & 20 is not saying one does not have the Holy Ghost but that they are not abiding in Jesus Christ as walking in the Spirit but walking after the flesh )
21 Keep yourselves in the love of God, looking for the mercy of our Lord Jesus Christ unto eternal life.
22 And of some have compassion, making a difference: 23 And others save with fear, pulling them out of the fire; hating even the garment spotted by the flesh.
Verses 22 & 23 is the reference for how those that wet themselves should also ask Jesus for deliverance from that sin.
24 Now unto him that is able to keep you from falling, and to present you faultless before the presence of his glory with exceeding joy, 25 To the only wise God our Saviour, be glory and majesty, dominion and power, both now and ever. Amen.
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Verses 24-25 testifies as to how we are to look to Jesus for mercy in leading us away from temptations & delivering us from the evil one for He alone can save us from our sins & keep us from those sins daily.
Hebrews 12:1Wherefore seeing we also are compassed about with so great a cloud of witnesses, let us lay aside every weight, and the sin which doth so easily beset us, and let us run with patience the race that is set before us, 2 Looking unto Jesus the author and finisher of our faith; who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame, and is set down at the right hand of the throne of God.
1 John 3:3 And every man that hath this hope in him purifieth himself, even as he is pure.... 8 He that committeth sin is of the devil; for the devil sinneth from the beginning.
For this purpose the Son of God was manifested, that he might destroy the works of the devil.
2 Timothy 4:18 And the Lord shall deliver me from every evil work, and will preserve me unto his heavenly kingdom: to whom be glory for ever and ever. Amen.
As for the good that you claim masturbation does, I had read a medical article at one time testifying that sex prevents colon cancer as it helps with bowel movements and such. How many single men bought that "rationalizing sell" to have sex with women for that prevention alone and out of fear too?
I do not doubt what you went through for why you saw masturbation as a release from that pain, but I have heard of how the mind can be tricked from feeling the pain when pain is felt elsewhere or pleasure comes in masking out that pain.
What you went through, sounds horrible. I am glad that the Lord helped you to see the vanity of promises to resting in His promises to you all the time for His help in following Him since after all, He is the Good Shepherd.
Your exposure to the Pentecostal/Charismatic whereby the Lord kept you from that false teaching of theirs about speaking in tongues as proof of having the Holy Ghost is good to hear! Kudos to the Lord!
But I believe you need to ask the Lord Jesus Christ for help in discerning whether or not you had reached the wrong conclusion on the subject of masturbation for why I believe it is the work of the flesh known as uncleanness by His words.
It doesn't matter if one has a wet dream or purposefully sinned once desire gets a hold and brought it forth, we need to ask Jesus for forgiveness and ask for His help not to do it again by thinking on good things other than that.
James 1:12 Blessed is the man that endureth temptation: for when he is tried, he shall receive the crown of life, which the Lord hath promised to them that love him. 13 Let no man say when he is tempted, I am tempted of God: for God cannot be tempted with evil, neither tempteth he any man: 14 But every man is tempted, when he is drawn away of his own lust, and enticed. 15 Then when lust hath conceived, it bringeth forth sin: and sin, when it is finished, bringeth forth death. 16 Do not err, my beloved brethren.
1 John 1:3 That which we have seen and heard declare we unto you, that ye also may have fellowship with us: and truly our fellowship is with the Father, and with his Son Jesus Christ. 4 And these things write we unto you, that your joy may be full. 5 This then is the message which we have heard of him, and declare unto you, that God is light, and in him is no darkness at all. 6 If we say that we have fellowship with him, and walk in darkness, we lie, and do not the truth: 7 But if we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship one with another, and the blood of Jesus Christ his Son cleanseth us from all sin. 8 If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us. 9 If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. 10 If we say that we have not sinned, we make him a liar, and his word is not in us.
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