Dave M
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Actually, the way a person handles money is a direct reflection of what he knows about money.
show me a person check book and we can easily tell whear there heart is
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show me a person check book and we can easily tell whear there heart is
Dave....You know that that is merely an opinion. Right or wrong, you are expressing an opinion and nothing concrete. For years you have expressed a loathing for money yet you go out every single day and break your back (figuratively speaking) to get money.... Why? Because that money is a tool that you need to get groceries, shelter and the like for your family....You also spend that money on toys, treats, and other "frivolous" stuff. Can I assume by your spending on the frivolous that you are not in the best shape spiritually?show me a person check book and we can easily tell whear there heart is
That is not always the case. Many people put on a false facade around other Christians but when they are not around them the real them comes out.You can know what's in a person's heart by listening to the words they speak.
It is difficult for rich to survive the acid test of modesty. But not impossible.
We can't look entirely to Abraham and even Job on this matter as they were not 'Christians'. Paul had the early Christians sell all they have and live modestly. Modesty is Christianity 101.
As long as there are starving children, I don't see how a devout Christian can justify living in lavishness.
Greetings Sue,Dave M. -- years ago, back when people still did use checks most of the time - that would have been true. What they spent their money On. Unfortunately, the debt/ credit cards are far more widely used. I'm probably one of the few people who still Does write checks. But I also give to church in cash. And there are more and more people who give to church on-line. I don't do Anything on-line. Well -- except for on-line direct deposit for my phone each month. And S.S. payments are auto-deposit.
But a person's shopping cart is a good look at people's eating habits. What's spent on junk food. The vehicles in their drive-way -- boats, etc.
So -- how many people are out on the lake on weekends -- in stead of being at church. What kind of clothes are being warn. Walmart or big name stores.
And a person generally lives in the income bracket they can afford. The lower, middle or upper-income bracket.
And you are a good , hard working person. You Do have an occupation and you spent lots of time doing a good job at what you Do. You provide a service for people.
And people Can be pains to work with. But they still pay you for your occupational service. And it's called earning a living.
Actually -- read a person's monthly bank statement -- VISA , etc. If they're willing to share it. That will tell it's own interesting story.
Greetings again Sue,our hearts and our hearts Are 'seen' by our spending and our attitudes. And the only way Other people 'see' us is by our actions, how we spend our money , where we Go.
When you start dictating what kind of person some one is from where they shop or what they do on the weekends etc, well you are crossing over into judgment on some set standard. In fact you were hinting on what kind of Christian they were especially when you brought up being on the lake on the weekends instead of church and their clothes etc.What in my post was saying I'm Judging anyone. Just good ole observation of People.
Greetings Sue,@Wired 4 Fishen -- regarding your first comments -- okay the love of God flowing through us should draw people to God. Fine -- but Most people aren't Always 'letting' the love of God flow out of us 24/7 -- our neighbors are going to observe us / hear us Raising our voices to our spouse / kids -- they Will observe where we go on Sundays. No one lives in a vacuum of Christian-living. And where we go Does get observed and Should be mattering. As the saying goes - people around town see us going to church on Sunday AND spending evenings in the local bar and observing the local bar activity Negates any positive seen in going to church on Sunday. Worldly neighbors hold 'us' to a higher standard than We do. Sunday church goers Aren't supposed to go to the local bar. 'We' are Supposed to be Different.
We Are exhorted in Scripture to not forsake the assembling of ourselves together with others of like faith Because we All need Christian fellowshipping. Aren't pastors / deacons supposed to be setting a Positive example for others? If churches don't have Sunday evening services, aren't they supposed to be hosting small groups on Sunday evenings or some other evening during the week in their neighborhood so as to have an informal way to share with their neighbors?
As for the boating with the pastor and a few of the men from church, people Have been known to say that 'we can worship God / study our Bible just as well on our boat on a beautiful lake as we can in church'. But, Do they ? And -- I Do recall hearing on TV at the beginning of summer 'boating season' a warning about Not throwing empty beer cans/ bottles into the water after boaters are finished with their drinking AND that driving a boat while intoxicated is not legal. That's It Is dangerous. AND pastors / deacons Are held to a higher standard in Scripture than the 'average Joe Blow'. NO one should Ever be able to use 'pastor and deacons' do 'it' , as an excuse to be able TO, Also.
Just because I CAN doesn't mean it's in my best interest Or the interest of those Observing me, Too Do 'it'.
Is it Really That important - necessary /To go out fishing on Sunday night? Let's see -- Friday night would be interfering with the sports game being played / watched. So Saturday afternoon would be the only other time to go. Maybe just don't spend your hard-earned money on the boat in the first place. No law Against owning the boat. But having the time to actually Use it and the expense Of and the place To use it.
And what kind of standards Are we setting for ourselves. Are they Godly standards? Or our Own standards. Where are Our standards supposed to be coming From?
I got a huge problem with this report.Greetings Sue,
Just as assuming one can tell what's in a persons heart by their house or car or anything else is wrong so is even being concerned. Its not my business or your business or any one else's.
Again you assume things concerning the Pastor and Brothers going fishing Sunday night.
1. Morning Service every one there.
2. Evening Service everyone there.
3 Church over doors closed.
4 Men go to lake and fish and have fun in the Lord.
5. Men pray with a man at his wits end also at boat ramp and The Lord turns his life around.
6 Don't you think God set that up?
Don't you think God smiles when His Faithful Children enjoy what He has given them?
Its far better to judge our own lives and Trust God to take care of the others.
Have a wonderfully blessed day!
One question...forsake not the gathering of yourselves together......What does that mean.... The automatic answer is "go to church" But is that really what it means? No. T@Wired 4 Fishen -- regarding your first comments -- okay the love of God flowing through us should draw people to God. Fine -- but Most people aren't Always 'letting' the love of God flow out of us 24/7 -- our neighbors are going to observe us / hear us Raising our voices to our spouse / kids -- they Will observe where we go on Sundays. No one lives in a vacuum of Christian-living. And where we go Does get observed and Should be mattering. As the saying goes - people around town see us going to church on Sunday AND spending evenings in the local bar and observing the local bar activity Negates any positive seen in going to church on Sunday. Worldly neighbors hold 'us' to a higher standard than We do. Sunday church goers Aren't supposed to go to the local bar. 'We' are Supposed to be Different.
We Are exhorted in Scripture to not forsake the assembling of ourselves together with others of like faith Because we All need Christian fellowshipping. Aren't pastors / deacons supposed to be setting a Positive example for others? If churches don't have Sunday evening services, aren't they supposed to be hosting small groups on Sunday evenings or some other evening during the week in their neighborhood so as to have an informal way to share with their neighbors?
As for the boating with the pastor and a few of the men from church, people Have been known to say that 'we can worship God / study our Bible just as well on our boat on a beautiful lake as we can in church'. But, Do they ? And -- I Do recall hearing on TV at the beginning of summer 'boating season' a warning about Not throwing empty beer cans/ bottles into the water after boaters are finished with their drinking AND that driving a boat while intoxicated is not legal. That's It Is dangerous. AND pastors / deacons Are held to a higher standard in Scripture than the 'average Joe Blow'. NO one should Ever be able to use 'pastor and deacons' do 'it' , as an excuse to be able TO, Also.
Just because I CAN doesn't mean it's in my best interest Or the interest of those Observing me, Too Do 'it'.
Is it Really That important - necessary /To go out fishing on Sunday night? Let's see -- Friday night would be interfering with the sports game being played / watched. So Saturday afternoon would be the only other time to go. Maybe just don't spend your hard-earned money on the boat in the first place. No law Against owning the boat. But having the time to actually Use it and the expense Of and the place To use it.
And what kind of standards Are we setting for ourselves. Are they Godly standards? Or our Own standards. Where are Our standards supposed to be coming From?
Greetings Sue,
Just as assuming one can tell what's in a persons heart by their house or car or anything else is wrong so is even being concerned. Its not my business or your business or any one else's.
Again you assume things concerning the Pastor and Brothers going fishing Sunday night.
1. Morning Service every one there.
2. Evening Service everyone there.
3 Church over doors closed.
4 Men go to lake and fish and have fun in the Lord.
5. Men pray with a man at his wits end also at boat ramp and The Lord turns his life around.
6 Don't you think God set that up?
Don't you think God smiles when His Faithful Children enjoy what He has given them?
Its far better to judge our own lives and Trust God to take care of the others.
Have a wonderfully blessed day!
One question...forsake not the gathering of yourselves together......What does that mean.... The automatic answer is "go to church" But is that really what it means? No. T
I got a huge problem with this report.
They include everything as in the Pastor owns. That's not true. If the Pastor left all that stuff would stay with the church or ministry.
Blessings