There is a principle of not casting pearls before swine, which pretty much means stop talking to people who won't listen to you, or in other words, there truly are people out there whom one should just ignore. It's a good sign when Christians need only accept the voluntary suffering that comes from being annoyed. (As opposed to torture.)
A long time ago I was in a bible study where a fellow was glorifying God that he overcame being annoyed by anything ( I was hearing a lot of Buddhist like words). So since he was sitting directly to my left, I lightly poked him in the shoulder with the sharp end of my pocketknife blade (literally). And as he kept speaking (looking for validation and acclamation from the others for his newfound blessedness), I just went "poke.... poke.... poke."
He became annoyed.
Now if he had just calmly asked what I was doing and if I would please stop, I would have conceded the point (metaphorically). Rather, he finally had to admit that he was mistaken about his "overcoming."
Bias confirmation is a real thing, and people react violently, whether in speech or action, when shown to be wrong. To acknowledge that one is wrong means that this part of you that believed this wrong thing must die, and trust me, most all believers have their core-identity-of-self intrinsically tied in with their beliefs (doctrines, etc.). Instead, to preserve that part of their life, they react with condemnation mostly from an emotional state - a combination of hate and insecurity.
The believer, however, is called to forgive. But forgiveness will be painful because it requires voluntary suffering (whether one is right or wrong) rather than justification. In the parables of Jesus, he speaks of forgiving debts that are owed. And note that this person doing the forgiving (typically the king) is Never paid back. The King voluntarily suffers the loss, when in compassion and mercy, he forgives the debt (which never gets paid back).
Rhema
May you be blessed in your being annoyed.
