This book 'Gospel Salvation' by dag heward mills really helped me understand the basics of my salvation and what a person goes through when saved. I believe that once you have an understanding of this it will help you answer your question. Here's a short excerpt I really liked- "The PrinciplesMan is a spirit, has a soul and lives in a body.The spirit of an unsaved man is dead and desperately wicked.The spirit of a saved man is righteous and truly holy.After you are born again, your spirit is a newborn baby and it must growAfter you are saved, your mind is still the same; it must be renewed.After you are saved, your body is still the same; you must keep it under control.After you are born again, your mind is still open to all kinds of thoughts; you must learn to think on the right things."
Visit his website for the e-copy of the book
Visit his website for the e-copy of the book