But you don't agree. That is why we keep going in circles here.
Posted scripture? Cherry picked scripture with the worst discernment possible.
I know many cherry pick on scripture I have not done so I have included full sections of scripture.
Read again the following, take it all in, many chop these verse up, they should not be cherry picked, the verses here are all part of the context, don't just read three times Jesus says we must be born again, important message for sure. Don't just read of God's love in verse 16 and 17, read the condemnation, read how people condemn themselves, then look at the full picture.
Very clear I believe, no cherry picking my friend, let Scripture speak.
John 3:1-21 (NKJV)
1 There was a man of the Pharisees named Nicodemus, a ruler of the Jews.
2 This man came to Jesus by night and said to Him, "Rabbi, we know that You are a teacher come from God; for no one can do these signs that You do unless God is with him."
3 Jesus answered and said to him, "
Most assuredly, I say to you, unless one is born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God."
4 Nicodemus said to Him, "How can a man be born when he is old? Can he enter a second time into his mother's womb and be born?"
5 Jesus answered, "
Most assuredly, I say to you, unless one is born of water and the Spirit, he cannot enter the kingdom of God.
6 That which is born of the flesh is flesh, and that which is born of the Spirit is spirit.
7
Do not marvel that I said to you, 'You must be born again.'
8 The wind blows where it wishes, and you hear the sound of it, but cannot tell where it comes from and where it goes. So is everyone who is born of the Spirit."
9 Nicodemus answered and said to Him, "How can these things be?"
10 Jesus answered and said to him, "Are you the teacher of Israel, and do not know these things?
11 Most assuredly, I say to you, We speak what We know and testify what We have seen, and you do not receive Our witness.
12 If I have told you earthly things and you do not believe, how will you believe if I tell you heavenly things?
13 No one has ascended to heaven but He who came down from heaven,
that is, the Son of Man who is in heaven.
14 And as Moses lifted up the serpent in the wilderness, even so must the Son of Man be lifted up,
15 that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have eternal life.
16
For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life.
17
For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but that the world through Him might be saved.
18
He who believes in Him is not condemned; but he who does not believe is condemned already, because he has not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God.
19
And this is the condemnation, that the light has come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil.
20
For everyone practicing evil hates the light and does not come to the light, lest his deeds should be exposed.
21
But he who does the truth comes to the light, that his deeds may be clearly seen, that they have been done in God."
Although man will be judged at the Great White Throne judgement, if he is not saved, basically he is condemned already. Standing before Jesus and hearing their sins read back to them will be a terrible experience in itself, but the condemnation comes to all lost souls, regardless of how good or charitable they may be or appear on earth, if they have not accepted Jesus, the Free Gift of Salvation, they have condemned themself.
Although it is important we accept God is Love, and in Him is no darkness at all, we have to accept His Word good or bad. And it really is our choice, we have no one else to blame if we do not heed the warning.
There are many people in this world who believe, God is Love, many celebrities do, many of them are gay and think the same, but they do not accept Jesus, they are condemned already. Unless they repent and accept Jesus according to God's Holy Word.
There are many people who take hold of various scripture and believe in the verse, not the context of the section, not other verses just the ones they like.
Acts 2:21 (NKJV)
21
And it shall come to pass That whoever calls on the name of the LORD Shall be saved.'
Romans 10:13 (NKJV)
13 For
"whoever calls on the name of the LORD shall be saved."
Acts 16:31 (NKJV)
31 So they said, "
Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and you will be saved, you and your household."
So a person says 'I called or believe on him I said a prayer... I am saved. No you are not!
John 3:16-17
16 For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son,
that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life.
17 For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but that the world through Him might be saved.
So a person says 'I believe in God and know the Easter story... I am saved. No you are not!
Why not? Because ALL scripture is God breathed, ALL scripture reveals The Truth.
John 3:3-7 (NKJV)
3 Jesus answered and said to him, "
Most assuredly, I say to you, unless one is born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God."
5 Jesus answered, "
Most assuredly, I say to you, unless one is born of water and the Spirit, he cannot enter the kingdom of God.
7
Do not marvel that I said to you, 'You must be born again.'
All the above scriptures are correct, providing we are born again.
So many read single verses and don't take into consideration the context of the section, the chapter, the book, The Word
I believe the above is a perfect example of this, three times Jesus 'emphasises' that 'we must be born again. If we do not pray through Jesus, who was given all authority, if we do not pray through Jesus who is the intercessor of 'all prayers', we can, call, pray, say we believe or what ever we are not saved, we will not see heaven, we will not go to heaven.
Some may say, some do say, this is not fair. Why? Because it doesn't fit what they want to believe, we MUST take ALL scripture, whether we think it is good or bad it is God's highway code, it tells us the paths to walk, it is God's love story for all mankind, He is the creator, He sets the rules, are we willing to abide in The Word, all the Word? We all have the same choice brother.
On earth if we exceed the speed limit on the road and are caught, do we say, I always do this speed, I know it is safe I have done it so many times. Sorry friend you are charged. That is the world's highway code, God has given us His, it is called the Bible, do as I have asked and you will have life, if you do not obey my commands you will have condemn yourself already.