I agree that we remain with the Lord when we die our physical death. I just don't find it logical that we go to the Kingdom of God when we die our physical death. I believe that happens after judgement day. See what I am saying? No one said anything about that bond being broken. We stay with the Lord, but we just sleep or even wait until Judgement day.
Your post has sparked interest in me for some strange reason. I find myself wondering what exactly the eternal punishment is in specifics. I understand that it is being separated from the Lord. I understand that it is something I don't want. However in the verse you provided from 2Thessalonians, it seems like destruction is the punishment. Just removed from existence. I also noticed the verse from Revelation. It also states somewhere in revelation that pretty much everything bad including hell is cast into the lake of fire.
I am more than positive that no one on this earth could possibly know exactly what comes after being thrown into the lake of fire. Obviously it hasn't happened yet. It is an interesting and pretty scary thought. On that note, new subject: Kittens anyone? Kittens?
The question wasn't directed at Christianity. Christianity is not about following a religion, but it is however about belief in Jesus Christ. So a lot of factions inside of Christianity are doing it right, but doing it in a different way.
However this isn't the subject. There are a vast number of religions out there in the world, including the dead ones. Believe it or not, some of the dead or extremely less common religions in the world are very close in detail to Christianity. So the question is: How do we know which is the right one to follow and to get into?
In this day and time, you need to think logical when it comes to this situation. A lot of variables need to be brought up. Here are only a few.
1. Only a loving God would permit free will and the existence of humanity for this long. Only a loving God would build a species so complex that they could defy all other species on earth. This rules out a lot of religions where their Gods were cruel to humanity and use them as toys. This leads to:
2. The simpleness of Christianity. How easy is it to have eternal life? There is only one requirement: Belief. Upon believing you receive gifts that grant you a better life on this earth, and overall eternal life. Only our God can give us eternal life with such an easy task for us to fulfill. Even after we obtain this faith, nothing we can do can rip it from us unless it is unbelief.
3. The lasting and vastness of Christianity. How many dead religions are there? Religions that just didn't survive over the course of history, the number is fairly surprising when you do research. Christianity is the largest religion in the entire world and continues to grow rapidly. It will never perish. It has started, and has never stopped growing for thousands of years. Impressive.
4. Proof. This is a double edged blade. While there is no evidence that the Bible is a fraud, there is no evidence that it is not. However, the first statement has command over the second. A vast majority of other religions have been proven incorrect and frauds.
5. The last bit of reasoning has led me to this. While there is no scientific proof, there is some logical proof. The Bible said many things that were not discovered until years later. Two things that we all can relate to from history and science classes. The earth is round, and the earth hangs on nothing. The Bible was written before any of this was proven.
These are only a few reasons why I follow Christianity. I also do it because it is a loving religion, and that is what I am about. It is the most logical and healthy to me. Therefor I find no reason at all to not believe in it.
In situations like these we need to ask God to open our minds. The more we learn, even it is about other religions and other peoples belief, the more we can understand. I actually find myself happier in Christianity when I do research about other religions, and yes even atheism.
So how do we know which one is the right one? Think about it with logic, and go with what feels right. This is what I did and I am happy in Jesus Christ. The truth though is, is that no one has "proof" of it all. Christianity is the only one that can promise you safety, a tad bit of logic, love, and much much more - as long as you believe - no matter what.